I actually started typing this post on Monday morning, and had no more gotten the first sentence typed when my entire life changed. And today I come back to this life lesson, which I am even more inspired to take to heart.
Bryan had turned 23 last week. He was the youngest of seven of us grandchildren. He was always very laid-back, easy-going and very kind-hearted. I have so many childhood memories with him in them…. especially Easter egg hunts, playing on the hill beside our grandparents house and so many birthday parties, holiday gatherings and life milestones that he was always a part of. He was outnumbered by us girls, and we would try to talk him into playing Barbies and “house” with us instead of cars. Even though I was little myself, I couldn’t wait to push him around in my baby doll stroller… because what’s more fun that a REAL baby to put in it?
I do not understand why his life had to end this week, and as much as I want an explanation, I’m not supposed to know. I do not need to question God, because time and time again, He has shown me that His plans are better than ours. He is in control. But it’s still sad. hard. painful. heartbreaking.
However, through all of the heartbreak our family is going through, a beautiful story of his life has been told this week. Bryan lived for each day. He worked hard at his job, and at his relationships with family and friends. He had fun and enjoyed life. He was a loyal friend. He really cared about others. He told a beautiful story with his life, and the outpouring of love, prayers and support we received this week was a testament to that.
While at the moment, we cannot imagine anything good coming from our loss, we must trust the Lord that He can mend our hearts and make something beautiful out of this situation. So many people have asked if there’s anything they can do for our family—there is. First, pray. Pray for comfort. peace. healing. Second, make an extra effort to tell a beautiful story with your own life, just like Bryan did with his. Be caring. Help people. Take chances. Both show and tell people you love them. Do whatever you need to do to live each day to the fullest.
Our family is so very appreciative for all of the love and support that so many of you have shown us this week. It’s overwhelming, humbling and brought a great deal of peace and comfort.
Bryan will always be loved SO VERY MUCH by so many that knew him. I am so glad that I got to be a small part of his life story. What a great one it was.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and He shall direct your paths.” –Proverbs 3:5-6
